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	<title>Kauai Essences Blog</title>
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	<description>the healing energies of Hawaii</description>
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		<title>LOVE ESSENCE</title>
		<link>http://starmen.com/blog/2010/07/31/love-essence/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Aug 2010 03:48:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ken</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A new version of the Love Essence was created. It has been several years since the last creation. This essence is the best work I have ever done in making essences. The base was roses. I have grown only one variety of rose over many years. It is particularly fragrant and is originally a pink [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A new version of the Love Essence was created.  It has been several years since the last creation.  This essence is the best work I have ever done in making essences.  </p>
<p>The base was roses.  I have grown only one variety of rose over many years.  It is particularly fragrant and is originally a pink Tea rose.</p>
<p>A friend of mine joined me in infusing the bowl with our focused loving energy.  The energy that came through me toward the rose blossoms, as they had their day in the sun, nudged against the central crystal in my heiao circle, can&#8217;t be described.  It shocked and delighted me as it happened mid-day.  From my perspective, the light that I am magnified and intensified from my core into the bowl, making the roses dance.  I can&#8217;t describe it better.  People are ready for this now.  It will profoundly restore the sense of self love and peace.  That is what is wanted most.</p>
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		<title>My blog choice of the year, The mind is like a toilet</title>
		<link>http://starmen.com/blog/2010/06/15/my-blog-choice-of-the-year-the-mind-is-like-a-toilet/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 03:59:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ken</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was just reviewing some of the blog entries for the last year. It was a good year. A lot of good stuff spewed forth. My favorite wanted to have another round. So, here it is. The mind is like a toilet. Every time you use it, you have to flush it. Otherwise you know [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was just reviewing some of the blog entries for the last year.  It was a good year.  A lot of good stuff spewed forth.  My favorite wanted to have another round.  So, here it is.</p>
<p>The mind is like a toilet.  Every time you use it, you have to flush it.  Otherwise you know what happens.</p>
<p>The problem is, the mind has successfully disguised itself as me and you.  So, what ever it thinks seems important and even worth getting pretty angry over. “Certainly not something one would want to ‘flush’ as a general rule,”  the mind argues. “The very idea of it smacks of escapism or some other neurosis.”</p>
<p>There is our dilema.  The worldly mind, in support of our mind, refuses to be shut up, and our only hope for getting in tune with our unique frequency or being requires not listening to our minds.  A real authentic expereince of self is within every one.  It requires no support from the mind.   It is always present.  The mind is the only problem.  </p>
<p>It may seem hard, but I am advising flushing after every use.  There is not one use of the mind superior to another.  All are equally distracting from the essential nature of each of us, that waits to be remembered.</p>
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		<title>Flower essence making tip</title>
		<link>http://starmen.com/blog/2010/06/15/flower-essence-making-tip/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 03:49:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ken</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Deep Tho'ts]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I want to share some perspective on an important aspect of making flower essences. That is, the connection with the flower. I can direct my attention towards the flower and think that I feel it, but I don&#8217;t really feel it. I have only referenced my memory of it. If I can remain present with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I want to share some perspective on an important aspect of making flower essences.  That is, the connection with the flower.  I can direct my attention towards the flower and think that I feel it, but I don&#8217;t really feel it.  I have only referenced my memory of it.  If I can remain present with the flower and not refer to past memory, the flower can appear as much more than I have stored in my memory.  It can surpass my expectation, appearing in fullness before my innocent eyes.  Only then can I begin to experience the flower or its meaning.</p>
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		<title>Letting go</title>
		<link>http://starmen.com/blog/2010/06/12/letting-go/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 01:18:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ken</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just received a real plea for help when times are tough. It moved me because it is so real for most of us. Life seems to deal us cards that are too tough to accept. Death, loss of a job, divorce, sickness, etc. I have no answers for any of these situations except the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just received a real plea for help when times are tough.  It moved me because it is so real for most of us.  Life seems to deal us cards that are too tough to accept.  Death, loss of a job, divorce, sickness, etc.</p>
<p>I have no answers for any of these situations except the obvious one:  Let go.  Releasing and surrendering are the only way out of these tough situations.  We have to get it.  We will get it with our own death.  All along life&#8217;s path, the same letting go is required.  Holding on is not going to cut it.  It may be hard, but what other solution is there?</p>
<p>I sympathize with the pain we all bear.  It feels so real and awful.  Let go and see what life brings as a follow up to the tough times.</p>
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		<title>Relax</title>
		<link>http://starmen.com/blog/2010/05/24/relax/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 19:32:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ken</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Relax is the best advice. Doctors agree. So what&#8217;s the problem? Why don&#8217;t we relax when it is so good for us? The possible answers are infinite. The core reason is our belief in the reality that we seem to perceive. We are conditioned on levels that we can&#8217;t even imagine. That conditioning leads to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Relax is the best advice.  Doctors agree.  So what&#8217;s the problem?  Why don&#8217;t we relax when it is so good for us?</p>
<p>The possible answers are infinite.  The core reason is our belief in the reality that we seem to perceive.  We are conditioned on levels that we can&#8217;t even imagine.  That conditioning leads to our strong opinions on just about everything.  Those opinions stand between us and seeing clearly what is actually happening.  Fooled again and again.  Despite our not seeing reality clearly, we cry, scream, fight, or kill for our version of our programming.</p>
<p>Relax?  How do you relax when you can&#8217;t just be with what is?  There is no relaxing in the conditioned need to alter our reality.  Only straining.  We imagine a fearful world and us being a separate victim of that world.  Clawing our way along the chain of survival.  Addicted to the other.  Feeling oh so alone.</p>
<p>Breathe into your belly.  With the relaxation that allows, consider the possibility that everything is OK just the way it is.  Consider whether your mind is you or whether you are the observer, the one aware of all of this.  Close your eyes and be in that anxiety free state.  </p>
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		<title>Unique</title>
		<link>http://starmen.com/blog/2010/03/30/unique/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 20:35:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ken</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You are unique. It sounds so simplistic. Yeh, of course. . . But, what does it mean? To be anxiety free, contented with your self, resonating at your own frequency, that to me is the essence of understanding that you are unique. There is nobody exactly like you. Your job, if you care to choose [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are unique.  It sounds so simplistic.  Yeh, of course. . . </p>
<p>But, what does it mean?  To be anxiety free, contented with your self, resonating at your own frequency, that to me is the essence of understanding that you are unique.  There is nobody exactly like you.  Your job, if you care to choose it, is to be your self. </p>
<p>OK, what is the catch?  Oh, just that everyone you contact expects you to conform to the local homogenized rules of conduct and thought.    Change your hair style to match the popular look.  Trim your eye brows razor thin like everyone else.  Wear the uniform of the modern industrial warrior executive; the business suit.  Believe in the values that are popular in your society, group, religion and family.  Big girls don&#8217;t cry.  Be a man.  </p>
<p>The obvious result of dancing in step with everyone else is that you miss the beauty of being you.  You are not to be missed.  By being your self, you inspire everyone else to do the same.  It is the most natural thing you could do.</p>
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		<title>What happened to be here now?</title>
		<link>http://starmen.com/blog/2010/03/14/what-happened-to-be-here-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 03:54:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ken</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The moment includes everything possible. Both blissful and painful. The pain is felt when in the moment there is space provided for some old fear to be activated. Without allowing pain to be felt, one runs the risk of going numb to life. That is so common now that I wonder what happened to that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The moment includes everything possible.  Both blissful and painful.  The pain is felt when in the moment there is space provided for some old fear to be activated.  Without allowing pain to be felt, one runs the risk of going numb to life.  That is so common now that I wonder what happened to that nice 60&#8242;s phrase from Ram Dass, &#8220;be here now.&#8221;</p>
<p>Is anybody here now?  Cell phones have provided an amazingly effective way for people to choose to multi task.  Great at work if you hate your job.  Great at home when boredom brings the mind&#8217;s craziest qualities out.  Hello.  Who is calling?  Someone, thank God.  (Sorry for this personal note on cell phones.  I am one of the few people on the planet without one.  My moments are everything to me.  They are for me, and I am only too happy to loose everything else to participate in the moment.  Cell phones?  No thank you.)</p>
<p>So back to being here now.  I am loving it.  I get better at it all the time.</p>
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		<title>Why choose Kauai flower essences?</title>
		<link>http://starmen.com/blog/2010/01/21/why-choose-kauai-flower-essences/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2010 01:06:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ken</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think I have taken for granted that every body knows the answer. I wanted to make a few comments that would help with the answering. The geographic area a plant grows and flowers in has a lot to do with what it will offer as a flower essence. Along with climate, the background energy [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think I have taken for granted that every body knows the answer.  I wanted to make a few comments that would help with the answering. </p>
<p>The geographic area a plant grows and flowers in has a lot to do with what it will offer as a flower essence.  Along with climate, the background energy of an area heavily influences the plants.  The human population does it&#8217;s share to influence plants.  We know that population density can overwhelm an area.  The actions of people over time leave long term effects on the land, water, air and energy frequency.  The plant kingdom suffers disease, mutation and weaker life force as a result. </p>
<p>Kauai is one of the northern islands of Hawaii, 2500 miles from the nearest land mass.  The population is relatively small and the plant kingdom thrives.  The climate ranges from desert to the dampest place on earth, with summer almost all year.  It does not suffer from the negative energetic influences of billions of people in America, the East or Europe.</p>
<p>Kauai is called the Garden Island.  Plants grow well in the 4 million year old soil.  The island has been connected with Lemuria as the northern most point of the sunken continent.  This ancient quality of energy is felt by visitors to the island as well as the plant kingdom on Kauai.  That refined, natural, supportive, nurturing energy is the background energy that the plants and flowers grow in here.</p>
<p>A flower essence is created to actualize a transfer of the plant and flower&#8217;s energy signature and frequency into water.  That signature is presented in full glory, not suffering the negative influences of population density.  The steady gently rains, mixed with sun shine provide a perfect environment so the plants are not stressed.</p>
<p>These are some starting points for a discussion about the relative value of flower essences from different locations.  I present the position of a producer of flower essences on Kauai.  I recognize, as an essence practitioner, that flower essences from stressed areas and climates are also wonderful.  I observe that each of us is uniquely designed and each of us have unique upbringings.  I use flower essences produced by others from as many unique areas as I reasonably can so I can best treat the patterns and results of our upbringing and uniqueness. </p>
<p>I believe that Kauai flower essences should be among the ones a person tries.  </p>
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		<title>Why I do what I do</title>
		<link>http://starmen.com/blog/2009/11/30/why-i-do-what-i-do/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 23:49:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ken</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After many years of producing flower essences and doing essence readings, it seems a bit clearer as to why I&#8217;m doing it at all.   I am impacting others in a positive way.   Also, when I am with someone in a reading, it is a time when I am clear of my personal mind [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After many years of producing flower essences and doing essence readings, it seems a bit clearer as to why I&#8217;m doing it at all.   I am impacting others in a positive way.   Also, when I am with someone in a reading, it is a time when I am clear of my personal mind burden, and I get to meet the person at the highest level we are both capable of.   From my perspective, I am helping the person clear the persistent patterns of dysfunctional behavior that interfere with the experience of their real self.   That process may take a life time.   The programing we are all subject to from birth to the moment you are reading these words is overwhelming.   So much so that we feel lost, afraid and fearful from our hypnotized condition.   Flower essences do the final healing after the understanding has happened in the mind, but the cells and energy field are still stuck from the years of programing and reinforcement.   Then there can be a more complete release of the old.     That leads to the awakening to reality.  What is. . . . . At this point in this experience I call my life, it seems that is why I do what I do.</p>
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		<title>Kauai Vacation Rental</title>
		<link>http://starmen.com/blog/2009/11/14/kauai-vacation-rental/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 04:48:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ken</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a unique guest cottage.  A virtual tour and virtual tour of Kauai be seen by clicking: www.kauaidigital.com/honualani]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a unique guest cottage.  A virtual tour and virtual tour of Kauai be seen by clicking: <span style="font-family: Arial, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; font-size: large; line-height: normal" class="Apple-style-span"><a href="http://www.kauaidigital.com/honualani">www.kauaidigital.com/honualani</a></span></p>
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