Unique
You are unique. It sounds so simplistic. Yeh, of course. . .
But, what does it mean? To be anxiety free, contented with your self, resonating at your own frequency, that to me is the essence of understanding that you are unique. There is nobody exactly like you. Your job, if you care to choose it, is to be your self.
OK, what is the catch? Oh, just that everyone you contact expects you to conform to the local homogenized rules of conduct and thought. Change your hair style to match the popular look. Trim your eye brows razor thin like everyone else. Wear the uniform of the modern industrial warrior executive; the business suit. Believe in the values that are popular in your society, group, religion and family. Big girls don’t cry. Be a man.
The obvious result of dancing in step with everyone else is that you miss the beauty of being you. You are not to be missed. By being your self, you inspire everyone else to do the same. It is the most natural thing you could do.