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Waiting

Waiting seems to be one of the most difficult things.   The mind just hates it.  We want everything now. We want so badly that we pray for it, wish for it, focus on it.

In Human Design, almost everyone is instructed to wait.   Wait to respond.  Wait to be invited.  Ugh, says the mind.  I’m too busy to wait.  I have too much to do right now.  I have a life to make.

So, what about this waiting thing?  Is it important or a waste of time?  I vote for important.

Look at it like there are two worlds, one where you have to do everything and one where everything is done through you.  In the later, you no longer go out of your self towards things.  You stay within and things come to you.  Things - that is, thoughts, feelings and perceptions come to you, appear to you, arise within you.  You, your essence, no longer needs to forget itself in order to experience the body, mind and the world.  This experience by your essence, or Consciousness, is the prize.  Experience it and you know I’m right.

Waiting, with awareness, is a prerequisite for experiencing deeply.  When you know that you are a unique perfect expression of God, waiting for life to unfold becomes easy.  What could you do to improve it?  Nothing.  So give up the anxiety, pain and struggle and try waiting for what comes.  It won’t be easy because almost everyone is racing, praying or hoping for something to happen.  The only mentors you will find who are waiting are a rare few sages and awakening ones.  Think about it.

One Response to “Waiting”

  1. lynette Says:

    This is beautiful Ken… All of the spinning activity around me gives way to a beautiful, often prolonged,P A U S E .. the ‘waiting’ is so important with me….it helps me cultivate sort of a ‘taming force’….to sublimate emotionality and impulsiveness - which is from ‘mind’ - not me…so when I really recognize my Will and Act on it - it can be pure, not watered down with false egoic desires……there is So much of my Not-self that still remains!!- I feel like I have to be really careful here….before I initiate anything.

    i need to be ALONE…that’s when it all seems to come together for me …
    I can’t explain it, but I really feel like Everything is unfolding exactly as it should be…as long as I do not listen to “mind” and honor my aura mechanic….that is all that matters here. I am not responsible for the Details!!! All of the writing and the dream is a delicious distraction for me….(sigh…..how I love it)! and it feels soo good! to express!!…doesn’t matter where it goes or what it says….just that IT IS EXPRESSED. But it’s only a sidebar here…..not the main point….

    There is only ONE OBJECTIVE here - for me….to keep moving FORWARD.

    Being ego manifestor, it is ironic that this ‘waiting’ is something i do Love….I am so conditioned away from myself…

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